It's absolutely true - it's stranger than fiction
My experience began 2 years ago. I met him online... I'd joined a dating site and he was the only man I ended up meeting up with after being on the site for a week.
It was ok, he was good looking and appeared keen. He made all the right moves and we ended up in bed pretty soon after.
After 5 months he cut me off, he called to discard me over the phone, just like that out of the blue.
I noticed he was still online but changed his status to seeking friends only. I guessed he had found an 'upgrade', but I was ok just hurt about the discard & excuses given.
He occasionally sent cryptic texts and nonsense like that.
6 months later I was hoovered back in. Clever stuff.
All was going along well when a second discard happened, he wanted the other girlfriend again.
I was very upset as, according to him, she was crazy, etc.
It happened again 6 months later, this time the mask was off almost immediately. I was frightened of him, frightened to upset him or question him in any way. His children were around this behavior which didn't make sense, I protected them from their Dad.
The final (narcissistic) rage was planned for a party which I was obliged to attend with him. I've never been raped but I felt raped. I was physically sick & frozen by fear. The level of cruelty is impossible to put into words. I escaped when I could without a word.
He then pretended he was too busy with work to call me. I was happy with the space and began researching this topic for my own closure.
He was with a new supply a month later. After 6 months with her he began hoovering me again, he has used insults, sweet little endearments, kisses, insults, smart comments, sexual flattery, insults and so on.
He betrayed me more than once, and he is currently betraying his latest supply.
I'm not reacting or feeding this manipulation because he is very dangerous. I hope I never see or know of him again.
Like clockwork he is popping up every 6 months, despite being highly sought after (in his head) by all of us bit**es (as he calls us).